V.K.GUPTA v. NIRMALA GUPTA

HELD : 1. The benign perspective which the Court must bring to bear upon a matrimonial cause is the resolution of the conflict between the parties and eventual restoration of the conjugal home. The first essay of the judge aided by counsel is that of reconciliation of the ruptured marriage. [S07C]

#2. The sanctity of marriage is the foundation of civilisation and therefore Court and counsel owe a duty to society to strain to the utmost to repair the snapped relations between the parties. The task becomes more insistent when an innocent off-spring. struggles in between the disputed parents. Judicial monitoring is a salutary prophylactic. [507D, 508D] In the instant case the minor frictions which got distorted into disruption being really the wear and tear of wedded fabric and there being a child whose future is to be largely moulded by the sweetness and survival of the wedlock, the Court impressed upon counsel and the parties for resolution of the conflict and restoration of the conjugal home. They responded, put in their statements and the Court directed the husband and wife (petitioner and respondent) to live together in terms of their statements and hopefully, never to separate until death do them part. The Court further granted three months time to know whether the marriage is back on smoothly. [507G-508q its wheels CIVIL APPELLATE JURISDICTION : Special Leave Petition (Civil) No. 3661 /78. From the Judgment and Order dated 9-5-1978 of the Delhi High Court in L.P.A. No. 41/78. A. K. Gupta for the Petitioner. N. D. Garg and T. L. Garg for the Respondent. v. K. GUPTA v. NIRMALA GUPTA (Krishna Iyer, !.) 507 The Order of the Court was delivered by KRISHNA IYER, J. Upon hearing counscl, the Court passed the following order : This matrimonial litigation, where a husband (the petitioner) unsuccessfully tried to get a decree for divorce of his wife (the respondent) under Section 13(1) (b) of the Hindu Marriage Act, has landed in this Court as a petition for special leave to appeal. Custo mary ac~usations on both sides were made the pleadings and evidence, but the High Court (both the single judge and division bench) did not grant dissolution of marriage. When we beard counsel on both sides on a preliminary basis we impressed upon them the benign perspective which the Court must bring to bear upon a matrimonial cause. It is fundamental that reconciliation of a ruptured marriage is the first essay of the judge, aided by counsel in this noble adventure. The sanctity of marriage is, in essence, the foundation of civilisation and, therefore, Court and counsel owe a duty to society to strain to the utmost to repair the snapped relations between the parties. This task becomes morn insistent when an innocent off-spring of the wedding struggles in between the disputed parents. In the present case, there is a child, quite young, the marriage itself being young. We have had the advantage of responsive counsel on both sides who shared the spirit .of our suggestion, worked on the minds of their clients and healed a wounded situation into a healthy rapproachment. What is equally noteworthy is the circumstance that the parties them •dves reacted sensitively and constructively. Naturally, there was initial resistance, mistrust, apprehension and, therefore, a string of conditions in arriving at a consensus between the parties. At the end of this conciliatory journey, it was possible to reach a happy desti nation resulting in the resolution of the conflict between the parties and eventual restoration of the conjugal home. Today, counsel on both sides put in statements which we are recording in the proceedings. In substance, both husband and wife are basically agreed upon living together with the ardour and lover of partners in life. The minor frictions which got distorted into disrup tion was really the wear and tear of wedded fabric. We are able discern in the two statements a sincere wish to come together and enjoy •he conjugal bliss which is right. We further notice a concern on both sides for the little, largely moulded by the sweetness and survival of the wedlock. lovely child whose future A B c D E F G H I • At the end of brief submissions on both sides, the (wife) agreed to go to her matrimonial home and respondent live with her A B c D 508 SUPREME COURT REPORTS [1980} 1 S.C.R. husband (the petitioner) right away. On our gentle persuasion, they moved from the Court to live together in the husband's home--the husband assuring the Court that he will live with and love his wife and the wife, in turn, agreeing to live in the family of the husband as a good daughter-in-law would do in a Hindu family. We are glad lhat the story has ended happily. We direct the husband and wife (petitioner and respondent) live together in terms of their statements and, hopefully, never separate until death do them part. As a preliminary experiment we have directed that the Court will wait for three months to know whether the marriage is back on its wheels to run smoothly, We have impressed on the spouses that an ideal marriage is one where-- "each sucked into each, on the new stream rolls, whatever rocks obstruct''. The special leave petition will stand adjourned to 25th January 1980 and counsel on both sides will report on Republic Day eve about the fortunes of the wedlock which by joint endeavour is apparently Judicial monitoring is a salutary prophylactic. restored. N.V.K.